Thursday, July 22, 2010

Family Financial Woes

This week I have been applying for financial assistance.

Here is my latest post about our family woes. See

my websites with donation tabs (to the right of this blog

at the top) if you can help us out.


The letter that my doctor wrote sounds like the rings of

death but I feel very much alive. I even mowed the lawn

this week instead of taking my walk:


"This letter is to certify that Ms. Denise .......... is under my

current care for advanced, recurrent, metastic breast

cancer which is HER 2 positive and pulmonary embolism.

She is currently receiving weekly outpatient Taxal chemo-

therapy and monoclonal antibody therapy with hercepton.

....... She is the mother of 5 young children and due to her

medical condition and treatment is currently 100% disabled

to work.


I would strongly support her application for financial

assistance through your cancer outreach center......."


I love my doctor. She is one of the kindest people I have

ever met. She is an immigrant from Germany and just

became a United States citizen.


The main reasons I can't work are: my children, fatigue,

and loss of strength and motion in my left arm from a

lumpectomy in my left breast and arm pit 1.5 years ago.

My OT comes three days a week to help me regain that

motion. That ends next week and then I am responsible

for the exercises on my own.



Dear Board of Directors:


Enclosed is the requested physicians letter. The last fifteen years I have been

a stay at home mother raising my children now ages 6 to almost fourteen.


Six years ago my husband left me and we have been sharing custody since.

Two years ago when I saw my dwindling bank savings from a settlement

and realized I needed to start working, I got sick with breast cancer making

it hard to think of even working with continuous fatigue and then pain and

lack of range of motion from a lumpectomy surgery.


Starting last September I had to start putting purchases, gas and groceries

on credit cards to save my savings for monthly bills. In January I sold

our van to pay off these debts.


But then I had to start over on my credit cards. Now down to $400, begging

money from friends and applying for govt. assistance, this credit card debt

is looming over my head. It is my biggest worry. Enclosed you will find

my latest bill for it. (now about $11,000 with about $15,000 debt total on

all my cards)


Any help is appreciated toward this bill.


Also if you know of any other organization where I can apply for financial

assistance send them my way. I will be applying for heat assistance in

November. I have applied for disability for MassHealth (I have court

ordered insurance also), am currently also applying for food stamps

and welfare.


Your gas cards sound appealing also. I mostly use Mobil here where I live.


Thanks so much!


-Denise Michelle

Art Appreciation Workshop

Last night I got inspired. I can never sit still.
I have so many projects so I am never bored
and I like variety. I've never been able to
focus on any one thing. That's why I am a mom.
We wear many many hats. Variety as they
say is the spice of life.

When I home schooled my children I fell deeply
in love with art appreciation. Art became a
center of our curriculum where we payed a lot
of attention to detail- a very necessary and
vitally important life skill.

We learned all about artists, their works, their
life and the different art periods. I taught my
children to draw using "Draw Write Now" and
"Drawing with Children" by Mona Brookes,
founder of Monart Art. I put many of my
art ideas up on my website "Experienced

Last night when I said I got inspired it was over
these books. I got them out and started to read
them. I read another one also by Mona Brookes
called Drawing for Older Children and Teens.

So making a list today at chemo (and also looking
at Mona Brookes books then I took
a nap as the medicine always makes me
drowsy) about all the necessary facets of a
one hour curriculum of art appreciation,
I presented my idea to the cancer social
worker that I would host an Art Appreciation
Workshop for the other cancer patients at the
cancer center.

She said to gather my ideas and bring them
in to show her.

I told her I was thinking if I hosted free work-
shops while I was sick I could build up a portfolio,
references and hone my curriculum --
So, that when I was well I could offer the workshops
for cost to children in the surrounding communities.
And bingo! After lots of practice for free I would
feel confident with this new business.

I made my list of places where to offer the workshop:

The Cancer Center of Lowell
The Library
The Paul Center
The Senior Center
Whittier Rehab
The Nursing Homes in Lowell
The Homeless Shelters in Lowell
Chelmsford Art Society
Home School Groups in the Area
Women's Breast Cancer Center in Lowell

Then I honed out the outline of my curriculum
thinking about how healing doing art can
be as well as studying it. Beauty gives
us a spiritual lift: in art, education, books, music and
nature.

Ugliness brings us down. Beauty lifts
us up to God. I teach my children to chose
beautiful books, art, movies and music.
I always turned away from cartoons as I find
them to be bad and ugly art.

Think how ugly cuss words are but how beautiful
nature is; what a difference.

A heart filled with beauty makes a beautiful
person.

ART APPRECIATION WORKSHOP
My brainstorm

Art Appreciation Books
-by Lucy Micklethwaite
-by Lickwick Publishing
-Others

Child Size Masterpieces
Art Cards
Websites for Free Art Cards

Art Appreciation Set
-show picture, ask questions,
look for detail

Art Stories
-the quilt one
-Brother Joseph's Workshop
-Lydia with Monet
-Arizona art stories
- Others

Art Books
-About different types of Art

Art Galleries, Societies and Museums
in the Area

-Lowell Art Society
-Textile Museum
-Colleen Sgroi, Billerica
-Western Avenue Studios
-199 Art Gallery
-Museum of Fine Arts, Boston
-Whistler Art Gallery and Museum
-Chelmsford Art Society

Art Events
-Lowell Flok Festival
-Open Studios, Lowell

For a Children's Art Appreciation Workshop
-Read an Art Story
-Do an Art Card Activity
-Do an Artists Memory or other Game
-Look at Art Books
-End with a Snack